Co-dependency recovery - Part 3

What is abandonment?

It is any behavior that takes the focus away from the child's needs. This course and not to leave the family home, alone or with someone elsewhere, including the establishment of camps.Where possible abandonment when parents are too busy to spend quality time with children.

If the parents themselves were not enough what they need, when they have children about the importance of healthy nutrition will be less of an idea.

Anyone who was raised by a junkie will know what it's like abandonment. Parent is consumed by their own addiction, and even if present, it needs to care for the child is unable to deliver. Used to clean a house parent, usually the child's needs will put in front of the cleaning. This exercise addicts, work addicts, sex addicts, alcoholics, and those that are addicted to perfection, and all other addictions is the same as well.

Abandonment appears in your adult life?

We as children in order to optimize the reduction and that we feel is lacking, either emotionally, physically or financially be able to cope with. While this practice is beneficial as a child, when we turn into adults is destructive behavior.

Some people hide themselves away from the world deal with the fear of abandonment, so that no one can hurt them. Many co-dependents suffer from isolation and the ensuing loneliness as part of the disease. They think that by engaging with life, they are protected from pain, but ultimately, it is often more than the pain of loneliness.

It is possible to separate when you are around other people as well. Some people have developed a very strong mask that says "I'm fine, but you will not be able to really get to know me." For all intents and purposes, they actually participate in life without, are attached. Again, this intimacy is unavailable for a protection against rejection or abandonment, but that's what relationships do not work, as they are not based in integrity.

Sometimes, it's a very unconscious thought patterns that can be used to drive individual behavior.As infants we are dependent. In adulthood, it inadvertently, "the person leaves, I will die" can translate.



Fear of abandonment is a very common fear, and even adults, who were loved and well nurtured abandoned for a number of reasons, can feel. Perhaps his best friend left the school, or a favorite uncle died when they were young, or from their parents .... Went on the list is endless.

Ways to overcome a fear of abandonment how we drink, drugs, unhealthy relationships and destructive behaviors like constant concern, is developing a better understanding of the abandonment.abandonment from the start to go away and can learn to value and love themselves.

This is a very big lesson, and "I'm not very good," a complete paradigm "I'm fine, just as I am" seeking change. Co-dependency recovery is a happy, healthy life for a long-term strategy, and performance, rewarding relationships.








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